2017 Men's Conference @ROLCC – Fishercoder
- Sources of pressure: family, job, connections, etc.
- How to win over pressure:
- Belief in God (确认主的同在)
- Removal of pessimism (除去消极思想)
- Be committed in routine (在小事上忠心)
- Pray for God's lead (祷告寻求神的带领)
- What if we fail:
- Accept truth (接受事实)
- Be humble to learn (存谦卑的心学习)
- Faith in God's ability (确信神永不误事)
- Questions to discuss in your group:
- What's the most pressing pressure you're facing right now? (在你现在的环境中，你所面对最大的压力是什么？)
- What's your normal way of handling pressure? Is it effective? (你通常面对压力的方法是什么？有效么？)
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What's the most helpful message you heard today? (你觉得今天的信息对你最有帮助的一点是什么？)
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Success
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How do you define success? (什么是成功?)
- Principles of being successful:
- (认识自己的长处与短处)
- (要有清楚的目标)
- 学习做一个解决问题的人
- 不要怕失败
- 要有热情
- 要为每天的生活做选择
- 从成功到有意义
- 从物质到价值
- 从追求到给予
- 从堆积到培育
- 讨论问题
- 请分享一下你现阶段的生命目标？什么是你的热情所在？你觉得最大的难处是什么？
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有哪些事是你正在做来达成目标，去除拦阻的？
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Connections
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A good web of connections is the KEY to happiness
- Principles of dealing with connections:
- In family:
- What they want is your time and attention! Put your laptop and cellphones away! Just spend time with them!
- Love your wife, never ignore her
- 爱，就是用心去注意她
- 要常纪念妻子的爱与付出
- 爱火是可以重燃的
- Be kind/nice/patient to your wife, your children will mimic you and have the same attitude to their mom
- If you're rude, inpatient to your wife, then your children will be the same to their mom, and then their future spouses, this will have permanent damage!
- 要教养你的儿女，不要缺席
- 明白"属灵的头"的角色
- 用生活的榜样来教导
- 按孩子的需要来带领
- 要花时间陪伴他们
- Have daddy-daughter date time! Set it up as a weekly routine, just spend time together, no interruptions, this is the key to building a strong parent-child relationship!
- In workplace:
- 要学习与人相处共事
- 对上司保持良好的沟通
- 对同事保持团队的互动
- 要选择你要相处的人群
- 要学习去帮助别人
- 关系就是通路
- Questions to discuss in your small group:
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In your personal life, what's your most tough questions in handling connections/relationships?
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Wealth
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Wealth for Christians
- Principles for Christians wealth manangement:
- 确认神是我们一切所有的主
- 作神忠心又有见识的管家
- 要殷勤筹划
- 要慷慨奉献
- 要拜托债务
- 储蓄与投资
- 投资在永恒
- 提早退休，投身服事
- 遗产规划，让钱财被神所使用
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